Waking up after 19 years in coma
BonBon said on July 12, 2003 23:24:
“Man wakes after almost 20 years in a coma
It’s sounds like the plot of a movie, only it’s completely true. Terry Wallis lapsed into a coma over 19 years ago after a car wreck near his home in Arkansas. He’s been in a comatose state at the Stone County Nursing and Rehabilitation Centre for most of the time since that day. Last month, he opened his eyes and slowly regained the power of speech and a consciousness of the world around him.
His first word was, “Mom,” which was received with delight by his mother, Angilee Wallis, who aptly called her son’s recovery “a miracle.” David Good, a neurological rehabilitation specialist from Wake Forest University Medical School commented that Mr. Wallis’ recovery after almost two decades is so rare that statistics aren’t even kept on the event.
Terry’s long-term memory seems to function normally, but appears to have been frozen back in 1984. He awoke believing that Ronald Reagan was President, and asked for his grandmother who had died several years ago, remembering her phone number which everyone else in the family had forgotten. Jerry Wallis, Terry’s father commented, “You see, he’s still back in 1984.” James Zini, Wallis’ family physician instructed the hospital to treat Terry as though he were awake and functioning, and his family took him home with them for periodic visits. The few memories that he formed over the years were likely the results of conversations he overheard as he drifted in and out of the coma. One example of this was that Terry awoke knowing what a cell phone was, even though he had never seen one.
Terry hadn’t spoken to his family since 13 July 1984 when he said goodbye to his 17 year old wife and six-week old daughter and left for a drive with his close friend “Chub” Moore. Their truck smashed through a guardrail several miles out of town and plunged 25 feet before landing upside down in a creek bed below the road. They were found the next morning by the local police. Eight days later, Moore died and Terry was placed on a ventilator, heart monitor and a feeding tube.
The family is understandably ebullient over Terry’s miraculous recovery. Terry awoke unexpectedly when his mother entered the room and asked the question she’d become accustomed to asking on her daily visits, “Who’s here? Who is it who came to visit you today?” To her amazement, this time he answered. His first words were soon followed with a torrent as he struggled to get a grasp on the changes that had taken place. Terry’s language skills recovered slowly at first, a few words at a time, but now, according to his family he talks almost full time and has given interviews with reporters from around the world. His reunion with his family also included meeting his 19 year old daughter Amber, who was born just before the accident. For the first time, he was able to tell her, “You’re pretty” and “I love you.”
One can only imagine the difficult adjustments that lie ahead for Terry, as he adjusts to the world that is suddenly reappeared before him, and, simultaneously grapples with the challenges of his remaining medical problems. He remains a parapalegic with almost no use of his arms or legs. He is working with a speech therapist and has said that he hopes to work on walking again one day.”
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source: everything2.com
Amazing story, isn´t it guys!?
Jud (moderator) said on July 13, 2003 14:19:
same here, it is cruel for the family + friends to have them hanging around still hoping you will wake up somewhen, when in most of cases the person does NOT wake up. And what do you do after 19 years???
In any case, this guy cannot move, cannot speak properly, ... so more suffering for the family ..
I think that more than a year is enough..
ally77 said on July 13, 2003 16:59:
I am so happy people agree with me.... I am sure it is what his family wanted but is it what he would have wanted???
Lotty said on July 13, 2003 22:09:
Really amazing. I am Christian, so for life, but these stories always make me wonder...what would I do? Would I ask my family to switch off the machine when it ever would happen to me?
And is that a real life that you can’t move?
sunnshy said on July 14, 2003 16:16:
i also agree, its totally cruel for everybody including the patient, imagine the daughter never knew his father and now she’s 19 years old and suddenly she has a dad, besides if you are the patient there most be a shock learning that the world is complety different now, bush made a stupid war out of nowhere etc...
Mambo said on July 14, 2003 16:16:
well here another person who thinks the same. Turn the machin off. I’m a nurse and i did a study about coma and the way people come out of it..if they wake up.
Jud (moderator) said on July 14, 2003 17:10:
and this guy cannot even speak properly, he doesn’t have a lot of memory.. sincerely.. to wake up like this, I would prefer NOT to wake up. Just thinking about my mum sitting next to me, trying to make me say 2 words in a row, suffering and wondering why it had to happen to me.. nah..
Mambo said on July 14, 2003 19:59:
@Judith i totally agree!!! I mean even when people wake up out of coma quit well. I mean talking, walking and after some time have little memory back from the past than you should have been a lucky person.
But i’ve heard about a female who came out like this and even she got problems. She couldn’t find her identity, get’s scared and i mean really scared..like a obsession. Lot’s of changes came and the people around her couldn’t understand that she was a complete other person.
Smell differently, the things she liked well she almost hates it now. Can you imagine..you wake up and suddenly you hate roxette and all the things you once loved???
She is depressed now and other people keep saying hey..she came out of coma well. i think different now a days
Lotty said on July 14, 2003 21:45:
I hope that I will be never in coma. But if I ever would, I don’t want to wake up...
ally77 said on July 13, 2003 10:59:
I am happy for him.... but when I heard this story I told my mother that should anything ever happen to me like this and was to put me in a coma for more than 12 weeks then switch the machine off as I would not want to put my family and friends through that and I certainly would not want to wake up years after I had taken ill..........