i ran somebody over today
davidc4 said on October 25, 2006 16:52:
this afternoon i was driving along the road when o 60 year old woman stepped out on a zebra crossing and i didnt see her til it was too late.she is in a serious condition in hospital with a head injury and she has been described as poorly.
i feel so guilty and i donteven know where my head is at the moment.
anybody got any advice for what i should do?
i just hope that she survives and i can call round with a bunch of flowers and make sure she is ok
i feel empty and i cant believe what has happened
ally77 said on October 25, 2006 20:39:
Well David I don’t know what to say to you, except keep postiive thinking..... hopefully she will be okay. At least you stopped at the scene a lot of people would drive off....
What have the police said to you?
Ary-Sya said on October 25, 2006 20:49:
i’m sorry, i just think you must have a look to her and explain her why and how you are feeling, i think she will forgive you...yes, if it’s nothing serious!
let’s hope.
coyboyusa said on October 25, 2006 21:52:
wowo thats scarey thats another reason i don’t drive in the states peopel don’t look where they are going, poor old thing why anyone would let a woamn that old cross streets by herself ...
Ferdan said on October 25, 2006 22:32:
Keep in contact david, that should be enough
coyboy, 60 years old is not old, at least not where I live... people generally needs help above 70/75... and it’s not always the case.
ncurran said on October 25, 2006 22:53:
I hope she’s OK. Like ally mentioned, what did the police say? I’m sure you had to be interviewed, but i hope you dont get charged. Shouldnt be a problem if you werent driving irresponsably. As a driver I can imagine the scenario. Some old people as just as much a hazard walking on the streets as they are in a car. They often walk across the road with total disregard for oncoming traffic...still if it was a pedestrian crossing, then technically you might be to blame, depending on the actual situation. Try not to feel too bad about it, it was an accident and there is not much you can do about it
Oldag75 said on October 25, 2006 23:22:
YOU are not responsible, if you were driving lawfully and someone stepped – unlawfully, if you were driving lawfully – into the path of your car. You have every expectation for feeling horrible, but no reason to feel guilty of anything.
I hit a guy on a bicycle once, at night, in the rain, and he had no light on his bike. He was peddling unlawfully. Fortunately he was not injured (his bike was demolished)... but in that situation, HE was the fool, not I.
Beware of allowing someone’s “victim” status to over-rule someone else’s “lawful” status. Accidents happen all the time. Truth is, MOST of the victims bring on the accidents themselves, through carelessness.
Hoping the best for both of you.
LittleSpooky said on October 26, 2006 05:21:
To echo Oldag a little here: One of the things I’ve discovered in my time on the road as a professional driver and just as your “average Jane” behind the wheel, people will step out in front of you, fully expecting you to stop because they are in the crosswalk. The average weight of a car is approximately 1.5 - 2 tons. So, basically what that means is if you are travelling the speed limit (say 35 mph), for every mph you are travelling, you need X amount of feet to stop.
I was involved in a low speed accident in a bus. Travelling 3 mph. It took me 6 feet (72 inches / 182cm) to stop my bus. SIX FEET. Busses weigh on the average of 34,000 pounds (17 Tons). Imagine if a person had stepped out in front of me 3 feet away. I would have hit them, guaranteed. So the questions I have are:
What did the police say? How far away was the person from you when they stepped off the curb? How fast were you travelling (posted speed limit / above / below)? Was the sun in your eyes at any point in time? How were the road conditions?
All of these play a factor in the accident. David, I hope all is well for you and that you can “get your head” around it.
And Coy, when you’re 60, I’ll make sure you’re in the nursing home, strapped down where you belong, okay?
(My grandfather’s in his 70s and went hunting this past weekend and did just fine. The only problem: 8” of snow at the cabin, making walking a bit difficult. Don’t be so insulting.)
ally77 said on October 26, 2006 06:34:
I actually witnessed some stupid people this week crossing a busy road near the vets.... there was me at the crossing (you know I was in the green cross code club as a kid) lol!
I saw 4 people in seconds run across a busy road and jump in front of a massive lorry.... talk about dicing with death!
pwbbounce (moderator) said on October 26, 2006 07:16:
OMG David. Are you okay? Have you heard about the old woman? Hope everything turns out okay for you :-) Let us know
just_like_that said on October 26, 2006 08:46:
U poor thing!
Big cuddle thro the net *squeeeeeze*
Hope she’s starting to feel better, you stopped & helped with the matter - you can’t do much more than that. Accidents do happen, some worse than others - thankfully I’ve not had any major problems so far by car.
*BIG CUDDLE* Good luck.
davidc4 said on October 26, 2006 15:59:
well i got drunk last nite i had to numb everythin somehow.
the last i heard the woman was in a poorly condition in hospital.
it was a duel carriageway and it was raining.a small car - van was slowing down slightly in front so i slowed as well and the next thing i saw was a woman in the middle of the road.
i breaked but because of the rain the car slid into her.
i know that she should have waited for all of the traffic to stop before crossing but maybe i should have paid more attention to the pavement.but i didnt see anyone at the crossing.
im ok bit shook up as you can imagine but its nothing to what shes going through.
davidc4 said on October 26, 2006 16:22:
they dont allow u to talk to them and even the police have to have a special password before the doctors will tell them any info
Ary-Sya said on October 26, 2006 16:24:
Ok, i didn’t know. what can i say, i think just good luck to both.
davidc4 said on October 26, 2006 16:25:
littlespooky
the speed limit is 40 MPH and i was trvelling around 30 - 40 tho i was slowing anyway for the roundabout that i was approaching.there wasnt any sun it was wet and horrible tho i could see through my windscreen properly.
davidc4 said on October 26, 2006 16:27:
i think we shoyuld be allowed to at least fone the hospital but thats the way the do it.i wouldnt mind but im losing my mind slowly with worry.im gonna try and fone police again tomo and c whats going on
Ary-Sya said on October 26, 2006 16:34:
also if you worry you won’t solve anything with it, so i think that is right try again but if it’s no, wait a bit and make you a cup of tea
ally77 said on October 26, 2006 17:06:
David don’t worry, it sounds like a accident your just unfortunate that you are the driver, from what you say the weather conditions didn’t help and you where not speeding.
She should have been observant as well to oncoming traffic... don’t blame yourself... accidents happen!
LittleSpooky said on October 26, 2006 18:39:
I have to agree. It sounds like she had decided not to wait and took her chances.
Galadriel said on October 26, 2006 19:23:
It may sound stupid.
But what if you searched for a good psychiatrist, I mean someone real to talk to?
ally77 said on October 26, 2006 20:28:
@ Galadriel.... it don’t really work like that in the UK, through the NHS you would be waiting 12 months unless you attempted sucide and then you would get seen right away.....
Of course there is always PRIVATE... but that would be so expensive!
Oldag75 said on October 26, 2006 21:03:
Half a mile east of my house is a busy street, about a mile away from a major-city downtown (skyscrapers and such) area. The neighborhood is really crappy, with several old beat-up apartment complexes..... which, at this time, harbor a large number of Hurricane Katrina evacuees who fled here from New Orleans last year.
A noteworthy number of these Katrina evacuees, when they want to cross this busy street, SIMPLY WALK RIGHT INTO THE STREET, REGARDLESS OF THE TRAFFIC FLOW. They fully assume that drivers will brake or swerve to avoid hitting them... and they need to get to the other side, to visit the convenience stores and purchase their beer... so they brazenly walk into the traffic.
Yeah, this is far different from an elderly woman negligently (for whatever reason) crossing a street and getting hit by a lawfully operated auto. But, it’s amazing that we haven’t seen any of them get splattered all over the pavement.
Galadriel said on October 27, 2006 10:59:
quote ally77 “.... it don’t really work like that in the UK, through the NHS you would be waiting 12 months unless you attempted sucide and then you would get seen right away.....
Of course there is always PRIVATE... but that would be so expensive! “
Oh, I didn’t know that. :-( Thanks for explaining.
rox-kuryliw said on October 27, 2006 15:03:
Ow lord dont get me started on the NHS ! i pay into a private health care fund now, thank god.
Galadriel i totally agree with you.
roxlad said on October 27, 2006 15:35:
@davidc4 if you didn’t speed and the woman stepped in front of the car then it’s not your fault, when it rains many accidents happen and not because you want them to of course so just keep praying that she is ok and try to think positive.
Majdy said on October 30, 2006 01:48:
Hey, David. I just read this thread. Sorry to hear what happen, I hope everything works out for you.
davidc4 said on October 31, 2006 13:31:
not good news im afraid she is still in intensive care in Walton Hospital i found out her name is linn or lynne and im still waiting to find out any ,ore news off the police
davidc4 said on October 31, 2006 13:56:
just so so.
i could be worse
then again compared to linn i dont think i can complain much im just in a bit of a weird state but nothing that wont pass with the help of a bit of info off the police and linn getting better.
Ary-Sya said on October 31, 2006 14:05:
well, i see you are not “puttimg you down” too much and that is a good thing.
hope evrythings will be ok
davidc4 said on November 1, 2006 15:28:
Pedestrian serious ill after crash
By Staff reporter
A PEDESTRIAN remains in a critical condition in hospital after being knocked over by a car in Moor Lane, Widnes, last Wednesday lunchtime.
The 44-year-old woman was hit by a blue saloon driven by a 22-year-old man at the junction with Kingsway at 12.38pm.
She was taken to Walton Hospital with serious head injuries.
continued...
Anyone who witnessed the collision should call Mike Jones at the Widnes road policing unit on 01244-613 928.
9:17am today
davidc4 said on November 1, 2006 20:21:
we thought that she had died this afternoon but cant find out any definate information.we think it was a rumour.hoping that this is not the case as it would be awful.
just_like_that said on November 2, 2006 08:16:
Our thoughts are with you sweetie.
Look after yourself cos you can make yourself ill with all this worry!
roxlad said on November 2, 2006 15:29:
Yes, you need a lot of patience and support. Our thought are with you.
davidc4 said on November 3, 2006 03:20:
she is in a coma and it isnt looking good i keep getting fed lots of info from diff people and cant work out wots rumours and which is truth
Majdy said on November 3, 2006 05:37:
Just stay positive and be strong... Negative thoughts won’t help at all. I wish you the best, David.
LittleSpooky said on November 3, 2006 06:15:
Tell them at the hospital that you want to give her flowers or something like that and see if you can find out that way.
davidc4 said on November 14, 2006 00:41:
she is still in a coma in walton hospital and its not lookin too good at all
ally77 said on November 14, 2006 08:10:
Oh dear, David sorry to hear this must be hard on you very much... but don’t worry yourself as remember it was an accident...
davidc4 said on November 20, 2006 14:18:
finally had news that she has woke up but havent heard how she is only that she is still in intensive care but at least shes woke up....massive relief.
ally77 said on November 20, 2006 22:33:
That’s good David.... it’s a positive step for her and for you! Fingers crossed for you! Keep in touch, maybe we’ll get that night out next year! ;)
davidc4 said on November 22, 2006 18:38:
ally......i expect a night out soon lol ya should come to l.pool or manc one night and bother a few djs to play roxette.....my copy of rox medley and a few other things are still in the car (sob) AND my copy of the cd out of The Look For Roxette aaaahhh.
rox-kuryliw said on November 22, 2006 23:54:
AND why does no one EVER want a night out with me ! !? rude honestly !. lol
LittleSpooky said on November 23, 2006 06:33:
Come to Utah, and I’ll take you out for a night on the town. But there ain’t much to take you out TO... :o)
No Matter Where you Go, There You Are.
davidc4 said on January 2, 2007 17:33:
hello again everybody just thought id let everyone know that the woman woke up the other week but i still havent heard anything on her condition other then sge was talking again which is good.
i hope she was home for xmas but i have no idea on where she is now
i scrapped the car a pic of which is on my myspace profile www.myspace.com/sleeping_in_my_car
ditroia said on January 4, 2007 17:48:
Try not to punish yourself too much, It was an accident. Now that she is awake there won’t be any problem.
Best of Luck
Dave
Never Left The Joyride..
Visit http://www.roxette20.eu/
Ary-Sya said on January 5, 2007 09:15:
Look, all has finished now, no problems more, try to relax now.
davidc4 said on January 24, 2007 15:51:
its not quite over with....if only it were that simple...i had to give another statement today...as for the woman she is still in hospital unable to remember much and cant walk properly they have said it will be a slow and painful recovery and that it will take months and months to fully recover.
StillRoxin said on February 10, 2007 06:37:
I have to say that pedestrians take their lives into their hands when they don’t obey the rules of the road just like everyone else....I mean didn’t anyone’s parents teach them to look both ways prior to crossing the streets, and to check traffic signals? It just frustrates me that people can be so blind as to not pay attention to something that could endanger them to the point of getting their own self killed! David I’m totally with you. You did nothing wrong, it’s not like you drove away after hitting her or that you intentionally drove her down, she didn’t take the proper percautions...hope everything is getting better for you all....
StillRoxin
~Dream about the sun you Queen of Rain~
davidc4 said on June 14, 2007 14:05:
went to court yesterday 13th June got a 4 year ban and a massive fine as for the woman she is still in hospital.
found out in court that she had a blood clot on her brain which they removed.a broken pelvis and broken bones in her neck she will be in hospital for around 6 more months but should at some point fully recover.
whateveriam said on June 14, 2007 14:11:
Oh no, bad luck sweetheart! *hugs* At least it’s not anything worse
’Even if I am in love with you. All this to say, what’s it to you?’
LittleSpooky said on June 15, 2007 03:40:
So you mean to tell me you still got f**** in the @$$ because she was stupid enough to step out in front of you?
Just goes to show... there ain’t no such thing as justice ANYWHERE.
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davidc4 said on June 18, 2007 17:56:
they blamed me and never mentioned that she failed to look before crossing which annoyed me....i know she is ill and its awful but i didnt see why i should take the whole blame.....it takes two to tango after all.
ncurran said on June 18, 2007 20:08:
David, I do have sympathy with you as I think any of us who drive a car would have to admit that at times we are not always the best drivers.
However, you did break the law and someone was seriously injured, so I do think that justice has been served. It amazes me how many people immediately jumped to your defence, assuming that you didnt do anything wrong and that it was all the woman’s fault, while perhaps being ignorant of the driving laws in the UK, or perhaps just trying to be nice. For that exact reason, I held off replying with my real views to this thread until now when you know the outcome of your court case, as I would take no pleasure in rubbing salt into your wounds.
When there is a zebra crossing, the pedestrian has the right of way! As soon as they step on to it you have the legal responsibility to stop for them. For that exact reason you should always slow down when you are approaching them. While the pedestrian should also look out for oncoming traffic, they have every right to cross and you have to stop for them! If you did not have enough time to stop for this lady then you were driving too fast!
I would think yourself lucky that the woman did not die, as if she did you would most probably be serving a stretch in prison for causing death by dangerous driving or even worse, manslaughter! Think yourself lucky that the woman has survived, despite the fact that her injuries must have been serious if she is still recovering all these months later. I know I would rather be the stupid driver making a mistake and being banned for a few years, rather than the poor sod lying in a hospital bed for months on end, perhaps never fully recovering.
LittleSpooky said on June 18, 2007 23:51:
Normally, I’d agree with you Neil, but after being a professional driver for almost 8 years (public transit) and watching pedestrians and other vehicles and bicyclists do some of the damndest things on the road, you’d be surprised.
Now... one would assume (love that word) that when someone steps out in a ped crossing, that a vehicle should stop for them. Does anyone here understand the concept of basic physics?
I’ve done this once before, let’s do it again:
Let’s use a bus, since I’ve done more distance calculations for that type of vehicle rather than a car:
Standard bus length that I drove: 40ft long. Standard weight: 34,000lbs empty. Now... a bus traveling at 3mph requires a minimum of 6 feet to stop in. How do I know? Not proud to admit it, but got in a wreck with a stationary object. I was traveling at 3mph, and the scratch mark down the side was 6ft long. And that’s with jumping on the brakes almost immediately after impact.
Now... a bus traveling at approximately 35mph requires a “safe” stopping distance of AT LEAST 100ft. Why? That’s to prevent passengers from being thrown and injured. I’ve brought a bus down from 35 to almost 0 in 50ft. That was not the most comfortable thing in the world, but hey... it was either that or hit the car in front of me that had decided to cut me off and then slam on his brakes. I was already in the process of slowing down from 45mph, and had to make an even faster deceleration than planned.
Now, David didn’t specify what the road conditions were or any of the following:
His speed, the distance from the ped crossing, time of day, whether or not there were any vehicles obstructing his view, where the position of the sun was in relation to him (was it behind him or in his eyes in front of him?)
So to say that “justice was served” is quite a load of bull-manure from where I stand. NONE of us were there, were we? Did we witness this accident? No. I’m going based upon stuff that I’ve personally witnessed as a professional driver. Here’s another little ditty:
Salt Lake City held a Mayor’s Convention a few years back. Dunno what the scoop on that was, but I do know that almost every mayor from across the US was here, along with a little entourage. I had just discharged some passengers at a stop near an intersection. This was a “near side stop” (stop just before the light). The light was still in MY favour, so I’d pulled back into traffic and was in the middle of the intersection when this group stepped right out in front of my bus. Lucky for them, I wasn’t traveling more than 1 - 2 mph and there was 6 - 8 ft between me and them.
Result? I immediately applied my brakes AND the horn, and the group quickly returned to the corner they started from. Had they not... I would have missed them, yes, but the car that was traveling up my left wouldn’t have been so lucky. He couldn’t see through the bus. Nor would the cars approaching from the opposite side.
Moral of the story:
PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR SURROUNDINGS AT ALL TIMES!!! Peds and motor vehicles alike. But NEVER, EVER assume that you have the automatic right-of-way. It ain’t gonna happen. The sad thing is, I remember my mom teaching me to look both ways before crossing the road, and to wait until it is safe to do so. People don’t do that now-a-days. They just walk right out in front of you, thinking they own the road. Until they meet the business end of someone’s car.
David: Best of luck to you, and hope that the local transit can get you around (or you can at least bike to where you need to be).
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davidc4 said on June 27, 2007 16:53:
i think you will find that in the Highway Code there is a section that clearly states that a pedestrian must stop and wait at a zebra crossing until all traffic has come to a stop. the speed limit on the road is 40 miles per hour i was travelling at 33 - 35 miles per hour so i WAS NOT speeding. at impact it was 18 miles per hour.
i would not have been done for dangerous driving as i wasnt driving dangerously.this was confirmed in A COURT OF LAW!!!!!!
it was raining extremely heavily so visibility was down.
i am the first to admit that maybe i was concentrating on the raod ahead more than the pavement but i do think that as the pedestrian crossing she had a duty to wait til any traffic had come to a halt.
AND WHICH LAW DID I BREAK MAY I ADD????
ncurran said on June 27, 2007 21:41:
Except the highway code is not legally enforceable for pedestrians. Driving laws on the other hand, are quite straight forward, and under law you are responsible for stopping at a pelican crossing for pedestrians. You cannot be charged for “dangerously walking”. If you were driving up to a pedestrian crossing at 35mph without looking to see if anyone was waiting to cross, then it was irresponsable driving...there is no denying that. Especially if as you say it was raining heavily, you shouldn’t have been driving as fast as that in a built up area.
As to what law you broke, surely you can tell us that? I was not in court, so I don’t know what you were convicted of?
LittleSpooky said on June 28, 2007 01:01:
David: Unfortunately, as is becoming common here in the US.... a pedestrian has the “right of way” at all times 100%, even jaywalking. Unless a cop catches them, or an accident results where the pedestrian is CLEARLY in the wrong. In your case, I think the woman was in the wrong as she made the assumption that when she stepped out, everyone would stop for her, regardless of weather / road conditions. When I walk to the store near me, I cross a road that’s 2.5 lanes (the .5 is what I consider to be the turn lane in the middle). I wait for traffic on BOTH sides to either clear or stop.
It amuses the local authorities that I will wait for traffic traveling on the opposite side of the road to clear / stop before walking out. Who’s to say that someone stopping for me won’t cause someone to swerve out and around them, there by striking me because they avoided the car.
The only thing you haven’t said, yet... or maybe I missed was:
Were there any vehicles parked near this crossing? If there was... limited sight distance would definitely qualify. I’ve watched people dart out to cross from in between cars... lucky they don’t get their silly asses run down.
If one can’t tell... I don’t have much sympathy for pedestrians. Same as bicycles. I’ve watched where time and time again... the person in the car is strung up by their oysters because of an accident that, if the pedestrian wasn’t in a “hurry” or was more “aware” of their surroundings, it would have been avoided. Or if the bicyclist obeyed the rules of the road (AS THEY’RE SUPPOSED TO BY LAW), they wouldn’t be sucking cheeseburgers through a straw.
You still can’t stop a 1.5 ton vehicle on a dime. I don’t give a damn HOW good you THINK you are. Physics just won’t allow it.
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RobS said on June 29, 2007 10:13:
davidc4 said on June 28, 2007 02:53:
“i think you will find that in the Highway Code there is a section that clearly states that a pedestrian must stop and wait at a zebra crossing until all traffic has come to a stop.”
That’s exactly what i always do. You never know what the person behind the wheel is doing/thinking, even though they should have their mind on the road.
I’ve had to brake suddenly quite a few times when approaching a pedestrian crossing because of my own fault of looking at something on the side of the road.
I would think that most people would use common sense to make sure that a vehicle is slowing down/stopped before walking onto the road.
davidc4 said on July 3, 2007 15:26:
yes but you have actually see the pedestrian before you can know you have to stop i didnt see her waiting to cross.
LittleSpooky said on July 3, 2007 23:09:
Can you appeal the decision?
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Icegirl said on July 19, 2007 21:29:
David I have emailed you… I feel for you on this the law in this country can be a real pain in the a$$! Have you appealed on the decision? I’ve had my first ever court experience recently… and officially have a criminal record now! Lol (I lost my temper!)
Marlene said on October 25, 2006 19:05:
Poor you... and poor woman.
Pray for her. Maybe it helps. I guess that’s all you can do for now.
And try not to make yourself suffer more than you actually do. You didn’t do it on purpose. Accidents happen.