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Cheating Partners
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TinyBubbles said on May 7, 2006 17:07:
If you were married, else living with a partner and MADLY in love and happy..wud you want to know if that person is cheating on you? Or wud you prefer to live your happy life with your partner and never know the truth?
xuxa said on May 8, 2006 16:56:
I would always prefer to know the truth!
Trust is the base of any relationship. You can’t build a relation without trust! So You have to be always honest with your partner! If people really love each other I am sure they can find the best way to solve things.
If something is wrong the best way to solve things is to sit and talk about it and try to find a solution for the problem. It is better this way than u find out from other people that he/she is cheating you.
If something like that hapened to me, I don’t think I would be able to continue sharing my life with someone who I don’t trust anymore!
Debora said on May 8, 2006 20:25:
Xuxa, I agree with you.
I’d prefer to know the truth from him and not from another person. Anyway, as trust is the base of a relationship (and it’s not easy for me to trust), if I put my trust in someone hands and he cheats me, I would never forgive him.
TinyBubbles said on May 9, 2006 10:23:
I’m glad i know the truth i mean i would always want to know the truth and i agree that trust is the most important thing and i toooo find it almost impossible to trust but now, like now that i do know the truth i dunno.. it is like i have already forgiven him and i dont want to do that. i dont want to forgive him. i want to hate him. But i love him. I feel like i have already forgiven him. And i hate this. I hate the power he has over me. But after what he did i still love him and it hurts. Not that it matters cuz it is over and we will never talk again which is the way it should be, i dont think i want it any other way deep down, but at the same time i miss him so much now it is killing me and for a few seconds from time to time i kinda wish i didn’t know the truth. That things were there way they were.
Debora said on May 9, 2006 19:01:
...well, maybe I could forgive, but I couldn’t keep with him, I couldn’t trust in him again. A person that cheats you once, can do it twice, three times...
Majdy said on May 9, 2006 20:08:
I prefer the truth even when it hurts, and just like someone here said, it’s better to hear from him than from anyone else. I think I will respect him more and maybe give him another chance if he told the truth, but if I heard from other people, even though that he finally admit it, I will always keep on my mind that he wasn’t really want to be honest with me ad probably will always kept that as a secret if I never found out, but of course once my partner cheating on me, it will always effect my trust for him forever, so it’s his job to make me believe in him again (Hopefully it will never happen to me now and in the future )
TinyBubbles said on May 9, 2006 20:31:
I heard it from others. He denied it all the way. And yeah i dooo wonder if i didn’t find out whether or not things wud just have gone on and on. I dont think i’ll ever be able to trust a man again.
Majdy said on May 9, 2006 21:30:
Here are questions that you need to ask yourself :
Do you trust what others people said? Do they have proof? Are they your good friends? There are still possibilities about what THEY said isn’t truth at all.
Hope everything’s work out for you anyway *hugs*
Majdy said on May 9, 2006 21:34:
Somehow I believe a thing called “guts” or whatever it calls, especially when dealing with people that we know so well, I think we will have this “feeling” tells us that something went wrong.
Oldag75 said on May 9, 2006 21:52:
If a fundamental understanding in your relationship is that you will be faithful to one another, and then person A cheats – does person A truly, at that point, merit love from person B?
When I have been cheated on (a couple of times), I immediately realized that I no longer loved the girl, since she had cheated on me. The first time something like that happens you, it is devastating. The next time, you are wiser and harder – and you realize immediately that you’re wasting your life with this person. Hit the road, Jack (or Janet).
TinyBubbles said on May 10, 2006 09:10:
I will be doing my utmost to make sure it never happens to me again..i.e... never to fall in love again.
pwbbounce (moderator) said on May 15, 2006 13:20:
First you’ve gotta have a partner for them to cheat on you!! :-))
TinyBubbles said on May 18, 2006 20:21:
Well, since i dont have one now, i dont ever have to worry about being cheated on again :)
tuvou said on May 8, 2006 05:07:
Well if I was that person, I’d rather know the truth.If he asks for forgiveness and promises never to do it again, I would forgive him. But if he can’t then to hell with him!!!
Actually I have never been in love so I guess my views don’t count...but hey at least I gave him a second chance!!!! (not everyone gets a second chance)