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Selling my virginity on e-bay :-O
54 replies
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 17:04:
Eh, NOT. Tongue in cheeck :P
A friend (with friends like these who need enemies?!) suggested i do it after i was complaining about money. Now he is telling me someone actually did try to do it on ebay!! Dunno why that would surprize me so much.. but OMG!!
Okay, for the time being i’ll forget about the girl who tried to do that..
What i reallyyyyy wanna know is WHAT is this fascination guys have with a girl’s virginity? Is it some kinda macho thing i dont get..?
??????
ally77 said on June 4, 2006 17:22:
Yeah it seems to be one of those things that appear on eBay....
A girl here in the UK did it to pay her students debts, she was gay and with a partner, but said she would sleep with a man for the right kind of money... she got £8000
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/bristol/3429769.stm
eBay removed the advert but she still went and met this old guy in a B&B!
Aschrum said on June 4, 2006 17:30:
NO, it is NOT a machothing
its only a MUSLIMthing
i dont know a SINGLE german that would like his gf to be virgin. cause that usually means NO experience. and how silly does a person have to be to want a gf without experience? :|
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 18:18:
Point well taken Andy...
This does not apply to Muslim men tho *rolling eyes*
And yeah, i mean.. if i were a guy i would hate if my gf was a virgin. Not for the “experience” reason you mentioned :P But becuz uhm.. i wudn’t want to be the one to hurt her or so.. cant really imagine it being the best experience..:-O ( or so i’ve heard )
But ok i’m just thinking that way cuz i’m a female and i’m SENSITIVE..;)
ally77 said on June 4, 2006 19:21:
and I wonder how many men will actually be honest and tell us what it is like.... lol
purplemedusa said on June 4, 2006 19:31:
Hats off to Bubbles - I agree 100%!!!
Ally can’t really help you there...!!
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 19:32:
Oh one told me earlier tonight, and i quote.. ” it is physically more pleasureble to make love to a virgin”
(and for the record.. HE IS MUSLIM)
tcooh said on June 4, 2006 19:41:
Guess guys never like be with someone who (many) others have done before.. (or where perhaps mates have been :P uck )
Aschrum said on June 4, 2006 20:01:
you should really reduce it to muslim guys. in western world ppl dont like virgins (neither males nor females) ;)
purplemedusa said on June 4, 2006 20:05:
Well between you & me I think any man that got a problem with being gentle towards their partner whilst being intimate (no matter how good it might feel) should rather stick to their righthand!!
rox-kuryliw said on June 4, 2006 20:06:
all just to over rated. i think the main problem is that sex should be involved in a loving relationship. Call me old fashion but thats what i think. From my own experience i like it better that way anyhow.
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 20:07:
Oh i’m getting loadssss of feedback now on msn and it is fascinating me now :D
Lessons in how the male mind works...
tcooh said on June 4, 2006 20:17:
@purple: Your point is a good one. Consideration should def be there. But just a detail, there are lefties also :P
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 20:26:
Ok.. there are two girls. They are identical in every sense, but one is a virgin and the other not. You HAVE to sleep with one of em.
Which one and why? ;)
purplemedusa said on June 4, 2006 20:29:
Hehe Bubbles’ first gender lesson!!!
... and once again I agree with rox-kuryliw; intimacy is just WAY better when there’s really passion between two people!!!
BTW I don’t think i’m the right person to answer you q, bubbles!!
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 20:33:
some feedback i’ve been given...
one guy says:
“1. there’s an element of ownership.
2. she is probably disease free.”
“you could somewhat have non-condom sex with her..and maybe the likelyhood of her cheating on you is less”
[edit] @ andre..above comments also happened to come from a muslim man
[edit 2] more comments...
another muslim man said..
“i wil go for virgin..bcase no one has touched her b4..she will have natural sex response bcase she is doing it 1st time..no risk of sexualy transmitted disese..would like 2 know how a gal feels when doin it 1st time”
Another guy said:
“its like a car, the one has a brand new seat, the other one is nice and comfy and worn in.. “
Another:
“maybe the guys want to be remembered for sure also, cause we all remember our first right?..Well, for me it would be nightmare to end up with a girl to with for life, that perhaps mates have had before. Even if it was just pointless one times passion, it would bug the hell out of me. ...Girls usually like guys who’s learnt tricks more than the beginners..”
and my favourite... hehe
“Oh, it’s like coming to the moon, to be the first one”
:P:P:P:P
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 20:36:
I know haha no worries Purple *hug*
btw why are you not on msn??? Dont u wanna talk to us?? ^^
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 20:43:
I’ve already had my first gender lesson!! A month ago, but hey...never too late!!
Men are lying cheating sex-obsessed bastards and *i* wud rather give my virginity to a donkey then allow a man to come near me!
:-O Did i say all that???
tcooh said on June 4, 2006 20:54:
donkey? :P
Well, guys are different, but with some common features I guess. Just find the right one and be sure, but it might take a loooong time to find.
kachina008 said on June 4, 2006 21:38:
Now, ask that SAME qn to girls, about their men being virgins. And oh, TB, ask those SAME men you got those answers from if they’d remain virgins :P
what utter bollocks. if you love someone, what the f*ck should it matter?
comparing a woman to a car seat is just insulting.
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 21:41:
I would ask them.. only they all went offline now after i told them i’d rather sleep with a donkey...
mwhahahahahahaha.
kachina008 said on June 4, 2006 21:43:
sleeping with a donkey. hmm. that doesn’t make any sense. Wouldn’t u be standing...?
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 21:46:
Your husband kachina offfered to hold the donkey down for me!!!
..seriously going off-topic now ^^
xuxa said on June 4, 2006 21:49:
I understand why a guy would prefer a virgin. It means that the girl is still “untouchable” and maybe that excits guys more :S
But i think that nowadays people don’t care so much about that! if a woman is virgin or not. What really is important is the caracter and personallity of the person. So dunno why people makes such a big deal with that....
kachina008 said on June 4, 2006 21:51:
My husband doesn’t know what he’s on about & needs help, mainly from me.
Ferdan said on June 4, 2006 22:04:
Maybe it has to do with men’s insecurity about their skills as lovers.
Anyway, If the girl is virgin I´d like it (but not preffer it) and not ’cos I’m interested in my own pleasure since I don´t think there´s a difference, but ’cos I know I would be careful enough to not ruin her experience... since a bad experience could take her a long time to recover.
purplemedusa said on June 4, 2006 22:05:
Jesus some of these comments makes my blood boil!!! jirregodkakpoes
TinyBubbles said on June 4, 2006 22:14:
Yeh..and i didn’t even paste the worst of the comments believe me!!!
LittleSpooky said on June 5, 2006 05:06:
No... that’s just WAY TOO MUCH information to put out there for yall to argue over...
ally77 said on June 5, 2006 05:18:
It’s so strange this topic should appear on TDR.... it reminds me of something.... lol
Zargo said on June 6, 2006 04:47:
best to avoid the movie, as fond as I am of Ziyi (and Cary Hiriyoki Tagawa)
ally77 said on June 6, 2006 06:33:
I saw it at the cinema, I could not really get into like the book, but knew I would buy it, but I bet I don’t watch it for ages...
Majdy said on June 6, 2006 06:43:
Ally said :
A girl here in the UK did it to pay her students debts, she was gay and with a partner, but said she would sleep with a man for the right kind of money... she got £8000
Hmmm... she could make it double if after that she do some operation to make her virginity back, I forget what to call it... vaginoplasty? *too lazy to do some research*
purplemedusa said on June 6, 2006 09:18:
Majdy; I must be entirely honest i have a HUGE problem with that procedure! Jeez why does women have to go through such trouble - I believe that when it comes to a loving relationship women shouldn’t be affraid to be who they are (or of their past) and MEN should accept and encourage this... GONE are the days where women are meant to be subservience to men!!! What utter bollocks!!!!!
alligator said on June 6, 2006 21:13:
I am reading very entertained tihs forum! finaly something entertained to read! be care guys!!.... im burning.... heheheh!!!!!
Now, when the men are virgins, the women are or not more patient? ferdan could be a gentleman, but he doesnt prefer virgns, I believe that men needs more patience when they are virgins than women.
purplemedusa said on June 7, 2006 10:39:
@ alligator I CANNOT AGREE WITH THAT!!! Ok lets talk GRAPHIC here... for a women to loose her virginity does involve a certain discomfort (Am i understating this?? I’m NOT a women!! Should it refered to as ’pain’?) How can you say that women as virgins have it easier than men!! Urm as far as I know there is ZERO discomfort for a male having his first experience of hetrosexual intercourse!!
alligator said on June 7, 2006 18:43:
no.you has understood to me incorrectly, when a man is virgin generally often the woman, in the cases in that there are forts affective bows, is patient in teaching to him like treating a woman. I do not believe that for a man is as painful as a woman to lose the virginity.
purplemedusa said on June 7, 2006 18:53:
I don’t understand,
“when a man is virgin generally often the woman, in the cases in that there are forts affective bows, is patient in teaching to him like treating a woman”.
Please explain.
TinyBubbles said on June 7, 2006 18:57:
“GONE are the days where women are meant to be subservience to men!!! What utter bollocks!!!!!”
Rock on dude!!!
*still running away from the donkey!!!!*
alligator said on June 7, 2006 19:57:
OK.... Let me see.... mmmmm....I am going to try to explain it once again and you please make an attempt in understnd ,let’s suppose a situation in which a woman whos already has experience falls in love with a man who unfortunately is virgin, what do you think about this woman? what she can do?? is she ready to teach her boyfriend about “skills” and be patient tohim with because he is inexperienced? or maybeshe prefers somebody who does not need advice?
purplemedusa said on June 8, 2006 09:42:
Spooks, there’s some sick fu**s lurking around the internet and with the right catch-phraze I’m sure you can make some decent money off ’em boxers! BTW was watching Oprah on Tuesday and was amazed AND horrified (over particularly the child pron industry EEEEEKKK!!) to learn that selling sex over the internet is one of the easiest things to do to make money.... *gave me tons of ideas* LOL! Will keep ’em in mind!!!
Majdy said on June 9, 2006 06:32:
Ah, Purple. I don’t know you’re watching Oprah ;)
I wonder if the episode you watched was about a boy who make money by performing sex through the web cam and gets lots of money? Well, by the end he helpled the cops catch those “predators” (I think that’s what people called them now).
purplemedusa said on June 4, 2006 17:13:
Dunno but i think virgins are over-rated in all honesty!!
BTW I’m sure the way things are at the moment you’ll get more for your dirty underpants than for your virginity!!