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lovehurts said on December 14, 2005 14:07:
I feel so miserable, the love of my love is going to have a baby with someone else in some months.
I can´t sleep, I can´t eat, I am so sad.
I don´t want to live anymore.....
What can I do? :( :( :(
lovehurts said on December 14, 2005 14:16:
Thanx.
He loves me too, but his girlfriend was already pregnant when we met, and he doesn´t want to leave her because of that, which I understand.
I don´t know the girl, but I don´t wish her anything wrong of course.
We don´t have an affair , because it wouldn´t be fair to his girlfriend, but we can´t do anything about our feelings....
So we are both unhappy now.....
Majdy said on December 14, 2005 14:26:
yeah, love is so mysterious... i just hope that you can be strong... everyone has to go through the hardest time in their life, and maybe now it’s your turn... stay strong and talk about it to your best friend or to someone you trust.... good luck...
Debora said on December 14, 2005 19:18:
A baby is important, no doubt about it, but if he really loves you, as you say, and he doesn’t love the other girl anymore he should be with you. Maybe he hasn’t got the guts to face the situation. I think a person could be a good father even if he isn’t with the baby’s mother. In your shoes I would talk to him seriously, you deserve be happy and he has no right to make you this.
Malin__ said on December 14, 2005 20:32:
I´m sorry for you, I got a tear in my eye when I read this!
I know that if the parents don´t love eatchother it´s not going to work out for anyone. As a child in that situation I knew it can´t work out. So do him/ her and the child a faver and go get him. If he/she loves you there´s no doubt that it should be you! If this can be your true love (and it sound like it) then go for it!
Good luck...
silverROSES said on December 15, 2005 04:40:
some people, had to go that situation...
maybe that was just a test for the two of you! but stay strong you’ll be able to find a way...
lovehurts said on December 16, 2005 10:38:
Thanx a lot.
I hope that everything will be great.
I don´t want to push him, he must made his own choice.....
purplemedusa said on December 16, 2005 10:51:
*hands lovehurts some knitting needles* Abort-ABORT I say!!!
Oldag75 said on December 16, 2005 23:45:
If someone you love doesn’t want YOU exclusively – if he/she has decided to go with another person, rather than YOU – doesn’t that mean he/she is not really as smart as you thought... and you would be better off not wasting precious time pining over him/her ? It’s a big world. Go find somebody truly worthy of your affection.
lovehurts said on December 17, 2005 13:45:
Well, it´s not so simple.
It´s not so easy to just walk away and leave a very pregnant girlfriend...
Majdy said on December 14, 2005 14:11:
hey... I am so sorry to hear that.... i never been in that situation, but i know how you feel.... I don’t even know what to say to you to make you feel better... but I hope things will get better soon....