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Advice required!!
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pwbbounce said on October 10, 2005 14:25:
A little advice needed please!!
I’ve recently met someone locally, who I’ve got a major crush on. Problem is I don’t know how the other person feels. They seem to be quite personal about their feelings. We’ve only been out a couple of times, and that was with a group of people. Should I just tell them about how I feel and risk rejection (again!), or should I just leave it? It’s really getting to me now, can’t think of many other things apart from this!!
Any advice????
plectrum said on October 10, 2005 15:56:
what’s the worst thing that could possibly happen? just pluck up the courage & go for it. It’s better than sitting around thinking what might have been, good luck to you & i hope everything works out for you.
steven said on October 10, 2005 16:02:
My advice...
Never EVER by a ford Fiesta.
Never EVER eat yellow snow.
And finally, if you ever find yourself in a police station being questioned, (with the cassette recorder activated), shout out “Stop hitting me”.
Other than that you are on your own.
ally77 said on October 10, 2005 16:11:
steven 10/10/2005 17:02 new
And finally, if you ever find yourself in a police station being questioned, (with the cassette recorder activated), shout out “Stop hitting me”.
Ha Ha, I like that, it also works well when you have a customer on the phone you cannot be arsed with, just tell them to stop being abusive and that you WILL terminate the call.... then hang up!
Not that I do the above very often..... ^^^
LittleSpooky said on October 10, 2005 16:51:
Colin: That phrase is so full of crap. Have you ever had your heart ripped out of your chest, run through the meat grinder, fed to the dog, shit out the other end, stomped on, lit on fire, run across a cheese grater, thrown from the tallest building, run over by a steam roller, and then handed back to you with the sentiment of “No hard feelings?”
I hate that bullshit phrase: “It’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at allt....” BLOW ME.
colinvdbel (moderator) said on October 10, 2005 16:53:
@little: i’m not saying i agree with it, ht eperson just wanted some advice :P
MiracleMan said on October 10, 2005 22:44:
LMAO Spooks!
I see Colin’s point, and I see Spook’s, but I’d say, if your up to the risk of rejection, then go for it. It might work out for the better, or you might be embarrassed and want to be swallowed whole by a crack in the earth. If that prospect is more horrifying than taking a risky step, then suffer in silence. Either way—rejection/embarrassment or keeping it hidden away—eventually, the feeling will likely fade and you’ll be alright some time in the future.
You also might try to wrangle some alone time with this someone. A good long conversation with a generous amount of flirting might help you decide on a course of action.
purplemedusa said on October 10, 2005 23:50:
LOL you guys are hilarious!
Paul, If i have to add my few cents, I’d say work on a friendship first... no need to think with your dick first! See if things doesn’t develope naturally out of the friendship... afterall a partnership IS about a soul connection!!
Goodluck buddy!
On a similar topic... it’s now official; Nikos (vaxjoe) will be here within 7 sleeps; God I can’t sleep or eat!!!! And it’s all thanx to TDR - our bond grew from a close friendship to a deep bond (soul connection) and we are finally honoring our individual dreams!!! Am I not the luckiest man alive...?
pwbbounce (moderator) said on October 11, 2005 07:06:
Hey thanks for the advice, some more useful than others (Steven???) lol
EDIT: Oh yeah, and congrats Purps! Jealous? Me?? never..........
purplemedusa said on October 11, 2005 08:29:
Hey Paul, please keep me/us informed... but take it slow & just be nice to yourself first... remember no pressure!!
BTW i think i’m jealose of myself... LOL!
TinyBubbles said on October 11, 2005 12:25:
I’d say go for it!! Honestly what could you lose? Good luck!!
Geluk Purps!!! Who is that anyways? You said thanks to TDR.. (just curious)
TinyBubbles said on October 11, 2005 12:30:
Omg what is wrong with a ford fiesta?!?!?!? Dont give me this shit now. I’m gonna buy one! Nooooo.
purplemedusa said on October 11, 2005 12:48:
Bubbles... here we go; http://leesaxton.tripod.com/tdrpictures/index.album?i=1
Paul & Neil both very cute pics of you guys on your myspace pages!!! *hugs 2 both*
pwbbounce (moderator) said on October 12, 2005 11:47:
EDIT: Wrong comment.
2nd EDIT: Wednesday night out cancelled.
TinyBubbles said on October 13, 2005 12:36:
did you ask her out????
(and it’s aNanda. not amanda.
Still gonna buy a fiesta *holding thumbs*)
pwbbounce (moderator) said on October 13, 2005 13:17:
Night out was cancelled :-(( So haven’t had the chance yet. Don’t want to call and seem desperate!!!
ally77 said on October 20, 2005 18:07:
Paul give them a call! I am sure they will jump at the chance for a date with you! :)
colinvdbel (moderator) said on October 10, 2005 15:07:
no pain, no gain!
you should always take the risk...otherwise you’ll never know what couldve been...
“It’s better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all” ;)