I like my friend
Luciasguard said on March 10, 2004 03:15:
I really like one of my friends. i am in love with him. the problem is im a boy and i don’t know if hes like that. I hug him alot and try to spend alot of time with him but he’s really busy. he recently had a grilfriend he broke up with and he says he thinkg some guys are hot but he won’t go out with them? I am really in love with him, what should i do and when,where and how should i tell him.
Roxlander said on March 10, 2004 18:15:
In a thread named something like “how do you know if someone is gay?” there are some advices for a case like this. Maybe you could take a look at it.
If you want you can email me and we can talk about it, I’ve been through something like that before :-)
TheRain1981 said on March 10, 2004 04:37:
You are not sure he’s like that? Well, he must be if he’s told you he thinks some guys are hot. My guess is that he’s gay or bisexual and in denial.
I’m not the one to give advice since I’m too shy to even do anything myself. ;) However, I think that if you think there might be something between the two of you - that is, more than friendship - then you’ll just have to tell him how you feel.
Does he know you are gay? If he doesn’t know, then you should tell him. Start from there I guess. Sometimes you just have to take risks to get what you want.
Anyone else have any better advice?