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What's important to you in a partner?
17 replies
Nina4u said on June 29, 2003 08:39:
What’s more important to you in a partner?
Put them in the order of importance .
1. Looks.
2. Intelligence.
3. Competence as a lover.
4. Sense of humour.
5. Financial security.
6. Kindness & consideration.
For me,
1.intelligence
2. financial secure
3.competence as a lover
4.looks
5.kindness and consideration
6.humour
Stormkeeper said on June 29, 2003 10:54:
Aschrum you´re brave :) many people doesn´t admit look is #1...
Anarem said on June 29, 2003 14:51:
- Intelligence (once you get over the initial attraction, at the end of the day, you still have to have intelligent conversations)
- Sense of humour (people with no sense of humour is a big turnoff)
- Kindness & consideration (who wants to hang around a jerk all the time?)
- Looks (you could be a really hot babe but be a total a-hole. Who needs all that crap?)
- Financial security (nobody wants to support a loafer).
- Competence as a lover (there’s always love manuals!... but trust is the most important thing)
lost-little-girl said on June 29, 2003 16:21:
1.intelligence
2. financial secure
3.competence as a lover
4.looks
5.kindness and consideration
6.humour
derek said on June 29, 2003 18:31:
intelligence must come from both sides
financial security must als come from both partners this is where intelligence comes into play
competence as a lover it takes two to tango if ik not mistaken partners can learn from each other
looks are not really important when it comes to true love its what is in the inside of us that counts
and looks are only skin deep
kindness and consideration for each other is very important
and humour is a very important factor in our lives
ok its not in order but this is my opinion
DaminehGessle said on June 30, 2003 01:22:
(1) 1. Looks (First I need to get attracted by his looks, then go forward. That’s just me. I want my kid to look good :D)
(2) 2. Intelligence (I have gone to school for years and think I am intelligent. I need someone to be as intelligent or more. I need competition in life)
(3) 3. Competence as a lover (Very important)
(4) 6. Kindness & consideration
(5) 4. Sense of humour
(6) 5. Financial security ( I don’t need anyone’s money and money to me does not bring happiness and love)
TinyBubbles said on June 30, 2003 03:50:
1. Intelligence (yeah, cuz one of us has to have brains...I’m keeping my future children in mind ;)
2. Kindness & consideration (This should be number one, but my kids could really do with the brains..)
3. Sense of humour (you’ll need it if you’re gonna spend your life with me!)
4. Financial security (stability is always good..)
5. Competence as a lover ( ...not that I know anything about that..)
6. Looks ( I would actually prefer my partner to be on the ugly side, cuz [method in my madness..] then nobody else would want him. He’d be allllll mine! :P
Aaso said on July 1, 2003 09:41:
1. Looks.
6. Kindness & consideration.
3. Competence as a lover.
2. Intelligence.
5. Financial security.
4. Sense of humour.
Aschrum said on July 1, 2003 12:14:
storm,
i mean... when u wuld talk to a girl u dont know, for sure looks is the first sing u...em... get to know (u see). so u probably wuldnt talk to someone (in ur case a boy) u arent attracted to wud u?
so in that situation looks wuld be the most important thing (and the way the girl/boy acts, when already looked at her sometimes *lol*)
but when i already know a girl, attraction is only one of the important points...
grz
beautyqueen said on July 1, 2003 14:28:
Hello!
I´m not only pretty I´m also very kind, smart, trendy and attractive!
xxx
Lovely Lily aka beauty queen
sweet_stalker57 said on July 2, 2003 01:22:
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Aschrum said on June 29, 2003 09:44:
1. Looks.
2. Intelligence.
3. Competence as a lover.
4. Sense of humour.
5. Financial security.
6. Kindness & consideration.
the only point that isnt important to me is the 5th one...
i want to have my own money and so wuld my partner have to