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Marriage proposals...

139 replies

xuxa said on June 16, 2003 17:56:

TB: I wonder why are you soooooooo interested on those matters. Have someone proposed you already? ;)
*curious*

TinyBubbles said on June 16, 2003 15:40:

Ever been proposed to?
Did you accept?
How did he/she propose?
How would you want him/her to propose?

*curious*

StupidGirl said on June 16, 2003 17:35:

:)) that reminds me of a funny incident that happened a bit more than a year ago. I was at this concert and right in the middle of it a guy I didn’t know knelt down in front of me and proposed. Of course he was only joking, but everybody around was watching. It was a bit emberassing, but funny nevertheless.

zeeshan said on June 16, 2003 17:37:

I haven’t YET FORMALLY proposed but when I think of it.. errrrr...... it HAS to be one of the hardest jobs for me! :S gives me creeps!!!!!!

xuxa said on June 16, 2003 19:17:

... or there is someone who is thinking to do that??? ;) :-P *curious*

TinyBubbles said on June 16, 2003 20:04:

*Wondering when Mr Skippy will be FORMALLY proposing*

wendy said on June 16, 2003 20:05:

;) :p

Santi said on June 16, 2003 20:07:

;):p

xuxa said on June 16, 2003 20:13:

;):p

TinyBubbles said on June 16, 2003 20:27:

;):p

kachina008 said on June 16, 2003 20:35:

(; d:

Aschrum said on June 16, 2003 20:39:

or is there someone who is ought to propose u? :P

zeeshan said on June 17, 2003 05:30:

;):p

zeeshan said on June 17, 2003 05:35:

TinnyBubbles: Woaa? he hasn’t proposed!? what a jerk.. leme get my hands on him.. I’ll make sure ehe does or he dies.

btw: do you want him to propose?(I can’t kill anyone who is innocent)

powerpoplarry said on June 17, 2003 09:10:

Well, I was almost coerced into marriage once, not cool.

I haven’t popped the question on anyone yet, but if things progress the way they are with Ally, it might happen sooner than we know it.....

TinyBubbles said on June 17, 2003 09:30:

Nooooo, Zeeshan, please don’t kill him! I love him! Dearly. So much i could live in sin with him. Who needs a freakin proposal anyways...

TinyBubbles said on June 17, 2003 09:32:

On second thoughts, KILL the bastard. He got me all excited for nothing!! MEN! Arrgh!!

zeeshan said on June 17, 2003 11:22:

Larry: I am sure it will go that way. Just give things time. Like I always say “Go with the flow”. Take each day for one and soon something too kool will pop up! Good luck ;)

TB: errrr but what if he doesn’t want to live in sin? Swearing detected again :@

Aschrum said on June 17, 2003 15:17:

btw: tb? are u a muslim?

TinyBubbles said on June 17, 2003 15:19:

A Muslim? I’m not even religious!!! Bah!

TinyBubbles said on June 17, 2003 15:43:

Zee: Not many men would have a problem with living in sin :P and eh, your swear-detector must be having a bad day or something? Where is the swearword??

zeeshan said on June 17, 2003 17:13:

Aschrum :(

TB: Read again.. HINT.. “BAS***”

Well I have problems so maybe he has ’em too.

TinyBubbles said on June 17, 2003 17:15:

WELL IF HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH ME LIVING IN SIN WITH HIM HE MUST JUST GO AHEAD AND PROPOSE TO ME!!

zeeshan said on June 17, 2003 17:19:

Well there MUST be something which MUST be stopping him. There HAS to be something else I don’t know why would a guy not propose YOU.

TinyBubbles said on June 17, 2003 17:46:

I wonder what that something is. LOLS

zeeshan said on June 17, 2003 17:49:

Yeah actually I think... you should! :D

TinyBubbles said on June 17, 2003 17:59:

I should what? Wonder? I’m not very smart...don’t mess with me here...:(

Aschrum said on June 17, 2003 18:03:

zeeshan 6/17/2003 19:13

Aschrum :(

whats wrong?
bothered by that that she isnt religious?
neither am i (ur first gf) :P

and y wuld that be a “sin” w/o a propose???

TinyBubbles said on June 17, 2003 18:24:

I’m sure it does bother him....

ally77 said on June 17, 2003 19:24:

...............

Aschrum said on June 17, 2003 20:04:

damn stupid religious ppl :D

Shane said on June 17, 2003 23:15:

My only proposal came from a total stranger on a street corner in NYC. He pulled out a beautiful ring and asked me to marry him (said he had been watching me come and go from our hotel for a few days - yikes). Then, a policeman asked me if the guy was bothering me - I was torn - he was kind of scary, but it was a nice ring with a huge diamond. Before I could answer, the officer asked the guy where he got the ring, then the guy took off running, and the officer chased him.

The guy I was with was not impressed with the entire conversation so we switched hotels. NYC is such a fun city.

Aschrum said on June 18, 2003 13:19:

lol kool

Shane said on June 18, 2003 15:06:

Yes - lol!!!!

Actually, on my first trip to NYC, I was with my mum and the man who ran the deli near our hotel asked mum if I was married. When she said no, the man said he could arrange a marriage with his nephew (we switched delis after that)

Aschrum said on June 18, 2003 19:54:

wuuuuuhahahaa loooool

zeeshan said on June 19, 2003 05:25:

Shane: LOLS!! you attract random proposals!! :)

Aschrum: Watcha laughin for haan!? HAAN!? huh!?? errr... whatever (kiss) (hug) (kiss)

DaminehGessle said on June 19, 2003 06:20:

I have never been proposed to. I have never thought of proposing. I have never thought about how he wants to propose or how I might like it. And I am not thinking about getting married any time soon. So I will tell you in a few years!

Aaso said on June 19, 2003 11:22:

1.whats this all ;) ... ?? ;D
2.whos Mr SKIPPY ???

TinyBubbles said on June 19, 2003 11:34:

Hey, Shane, how do you attract proposals anyways. Share the secret with me will ya? :)

Aschrum said on June 19, 2003 12:56:

im luffin cuz the nycity story :D

zeeshan said on June 19, 2003 13:44:

TB: I guess that she across the men who had some courage to do it.. I guess your dude doesn’t have that.

Shane said on June 19, 2003 14:44:

TB - not sure I have a secret - I do not believe I looked desperate.....

Maybe it is something about NYC - it was really hot both times, so maybe it was the heat that made them act crazy....

Aschrum said on June 19, 2003 14:47:

or maybe ur look?! :)

Shane said on June 19, 2003 15:57:

Ha Ha.....I doubt it is my looks

Aschrum said on June 19, 2003 15:58:

really? y do u think so? :P

Shane said on June 19, 2003 17:14:

No - I think I have average looks, so I do not think it was that. It was just a wierd thing that was kind of freaky at the time.

Aschrum said on June 19, 2003 18:11:

maybe its just ur charisma :)

Shane said on June 19, 2003 20:55:

;-)

TinyBubbles said on June 19, 2003 23:13:

My ’dude’ has lots of courage Zee. He’s just very smart (unlike me) He knows everything has a time (unlike me) so he will know best what time is right for what (unlike me)

Charisma? Mmmmmm...will keep that in mind :P

powerpoplarry said on June 20, 2003 03:35:

Well, when Ally comes to visit me next year, and there are serious sparks like I hope there are, there might be a proposal from me, we shall see...I never proposed to anyone before this... ;-P

ally77 said on June 20, 2003 06:19:

..................

zeeshan said on June 20, 2003 11:57:

Ally and Larry... good luck!! I hope everything goes O.K with you. I am gona pray for you and I hope that you are gona get what both of you want i.e. each other.

zeeshan said on June 20, 2003 11:58:

TinyBubbles: Yes, maybe he is waiting for something. I hope u r gona “WAIT” for him.

TinyBubbles said on June 20, 2003 19:09:

I will wait for all eternity if I have to :)
Because I know, when we finally do get together, the TIME will be perfect. And when our paths finally melt into one, Time will stop. Everything will be perfect. And nothing would be more beautiful.
It is simply something worth waiting for.

powerpoplarry said on June 20, 2003 19:24:

Hey, thanks Zee!!! That really means a lot, from both of us...

xuxa said on June 20, 2003 19:29:

TB: that was beautiful!!! :) I hope don’t take too long :)

derek said on June 21, 2003 20:34:

oh tinybubbles will you marry me and live in sin he he he he heeeeeeeeeeee

zeeshan said on June 21, 2003 21:04:

Tiny: There he just proposed.

powerpoplarry said on June 22, 2003 05:11:

Well, the next step for me, is I will be calling Ally later today, Sunday!! Just bought a good value phone card tonight, and I will be using it. Can’t WAIT to hear Ally’s sweet voice!!! ;-)

kachina008 said on June 22, 2003 08:44:

powerpoplarry: are you in the states? ...

if you need a good phone card to call overseas, try www.bigzoo.com.

they have the best rates i know. the only thing is that you have to pay using credit cards on the web, so if u are comfortable doing that, then really, the best value for your money. try it out!!

xuxa said on June 22, 2003 12:34:

Larry, Why don’t you use MSN voice chat, for instance. It’s the cheapest way to talk with Ally, I think. :)

Anarem said on June 22, 2003 16:42:

When I was in University, a classmate proposed to me, because he was so desperate to stay in the country. Never thought my first proposal would be like that! (Turns out he was able to extend his Visa)

zeeshan said on June 23, 2003 05:28:

What a “jerk”.

TinyBubbles said on June 23, 2003 09:19:

Thanx for the proposal Derek. LOL. But hey, there is only one man I could ever consider living in sin with...and i’m afraid it’s not you! :-P

Aschrum said on June 23, 2003 11:53:

oh so it have to be me :)

xuxa said on June 23, 2003 13:10:

lol

powerpoplarry said on June 23, 2003 17:11:

Xuxa, everyone here, I hate to say this, but basically, Ally abandoned me and what we had. This could be why she left, things were going too fast for her, and she admits it was a big mistake that she went public here with her feelings for me. It was such a whirlwind, and in the end I feel used and put through the ringer...

From all this, and Ally doing a complete 180, I am on the verge of tears everyday, and I know there is nothing I can do about it... :-(((((((( sniff sniff

derek said on June 23, 2003 18:25:

oh im so heartbroken *sob sob sob *he he

xuxa said on June 23, 2003 18:40:

Larry: Right now I am in shock, really. I don’t know what to say... I am so sad about this :(
Give her time and probably she will reconsider. She loves you, right??

powerpoplarry said on June 23, 2003 18:59:

She says she does, Xuxa, but she apparently has loads of problems that need to be sorted first before she can commit to a relationship with me. Could be weeks, probably months. A feel so sad about this and Ally herself, I hope she solves her problems and has a good life... :-(

powerpoplarry said on June 24, 2003 05:50:

Hmmmm, will I EVER get married?? I really don’t know!! But the thought of me not ever finding my soulmate and ending up all alone in an old age just scares the bejesus out of me, it really does.

I know what they say, when it happens it happens, but I’m starting to lose patience here...not easy to hang in there being single in my mid-30s...plus the 2nd of my 2 siblings just tied the knot, so I am the last one left in my family to remain single...so that adds to some anxiety with me...

Aschrum said on June 24, 2003 10:08:

are u searching for a relationship till the end of your life or for a “normal” relationship?

and
are there no girls where u live for u?

powerpoplarry said on June 24, 2003 18:53:

Asch, I’m looking for a normal relationship, one that can last forever; otherwise I am wasting my time, to be honest.

Nope, no NYC/Long Island girls, they mostly all play mindgames, are not serious, and are materialistic + not loyal...it is the truth. My friend Kenny has the same problem...

Aschrum said on June 24, 2003 19:35:

cant and wont believe that

Shane said on June 24, 2003 20:27:

Larry - Relationships are so strange and unpredictable. Some people find their match right away, get married and have a happy marriage. Other people spend a few years looking for their soulmate. I wish I had some words of advice or comfort for you - have patience my friend - when you meet the right person, you will know and it will be great.

Personally, I spend so #$%# many hours in the office that my only choices for marriage will probably be either the Fed-Ex delivery guy or the guy that fixes our photocopier!

harriej said on June 24, 2003 20:29:

@powerpoplarry:
I think I know what you feel, being also in my 30’s and still not knowing for sure what will happen in the future.

Wish you all the best!

Stormkeeper said on June 24, 2003 21:01:

single here :´( maybe forever - hope not

powerpoplarry said on June 25, 2003 04:10:

Asch, I wish it weren’t true but it is, and I am starting to lose hope, I’m afraid. Ever since the Ally disaster, what, yesterday??, I’ve gotten way cynical it seems. She wiped the hope from my mind, just wiped it away, like that!!

Shane, I know relationships are unpredictable and strange, but I am sick and tired of both waiting and falling apart when things were getting good. Yeah, I know of a few people who are happily married, a few being my parents + my sister + some relatives. But most of my friends are in the same boat as I am. One is even divorced, cuz his wife cheated on him. I’m trying to have patience, but it’s starting to fade, unfortunately...I’m starting to think I will never meet that right person, seriously, unfortunately...

And hey, you should give those 2 guys a shot, LOL!!

Hey Harriej, you’re in the same boat as me, woohoo!!!! You too Stormie, but in the gay department....

Hmmmm, will we ever meet the right other half??? Not sure....I hope so, but I’m starting to think NO....

Aschrum said on June 25, 2003 06:45:

it cannot be true!

xuxa said on June 25, 2003 10:31:

Asch: Shut up!! :p

Aschrum said on June 25, 2003 13:48:

love u too

Stormkeeper said on June 25, 2003 18:26:

I don´t get xuxa‘s reaction? :o

Aschrum said on June 25, 2003 18:56:

dont care abt her reaction ;)

xuxa said on June 25, 2003 20:39:

Asch: luv u too *kiss* ;)

TinyBubbles said on June 25, 2003 21:34:

Wow, tdr really does bring people together.... (i thought it was just a myth..

kenny said on June 25, 2003 22:23:

Wow, Larry told me about the whole Ally disaster as well, and I still can’t believe it!! I’m blown out of the water!! Why the hell did Ally mislead Larry?? I realize it wasn’t intentional, but she should have used her brain before posting her feelings on the boards here, and THEN doing a complete turnaround..sheesh, unbelievable!! She should stop playing with people’s heads like that, before someone ELSE gets hurt!!

wendy said on June 26, 2003 07:01:

You can’t blame Ally,c’mon........
It’s hard to now what you really feel,and offcourse over the i-net is even more complicated!!
She really thought she loved him,but maybe it was just some respect and friendship she felt,in real life it’s hard to understand what you feel,so,over the i-net is worse...
I feel sorry for Larry,but,i think it’s not so easy for Ally either!!!!!

zeeshan said on June 26, 2003 07:24:

I agree Wendy. I think it was infactuation at its extreme. It is good that she realized it soon.

ally77 said on June 26, 2003 08:04:

(as you know I am away but found wonderful internet cafe... told you I could not stay away!!)

*** SHE QUOTES ***

6/24/2003 06:50
Edited by: powerpoplarry (6/24/2003 06:53)

Hmmmm, will I EVER get married?? I really don’t know!! But the thought of me not ever finding my soulmate and ending up all alone in an old age just scares the bejesus out of me, it really does.

*** SHE QUOTES ***

kenny 6/25/2003 23:23

*** SHE QUOTES ***

wendy 6/26/2003 08:01

@ Kenny.... fuck you ... whoever the hell you are??? (Oh yes Larry’s friend!!)....

@ All...........

I was happy being friends with Larry and yes I had feelings for him... I know he felt the same as his emails said it all.... I admitted I liked him but did not expect him to go a little crazy and want to get married.... his quote at the top of the page says it all really “Will I ever get married”.... THE GUY IS LOOKING FOR A WIFE... not love... maybe some pressure from the family... He even admits that he was talking to 4 other females from TDR and choose me..... that is not true love it is desperation and I am sorry but I AM NOT LIKE THAT......... you CANNOT love someone without meeting them...

@ Wendy.... thanx for your reply..... nice to someone understands where I am coming from!! wish Santi a Happy Birthday for me as I must go to catch my plane....

powerpoplarry said on June 27, 2003 06:03:

Wendy, Zee, yeah, it probably was infatuation, but by going too far on both ends really messed with my head and my emotions. I’m sure it wasn’t intentional, but the repercussions were pretty extreme.

Ally, hope you’re having a good break, cough cough, or should I say vacation or R+R...

Now, HOW DARE YOU curse out my friend!!!!!! He is to me what Elaine is to you, got it??? Dang, I am GLAD things didn’t work out cuz you are a conniving nasty bitch!!! Sorry for the namecalling here, but I’ve always been civilized here, but Ally crossed the line...

Now it’s HAD feelings??? Damn!!!! Thought you still did, oh well no big loss to a headgameplayer like you. BTW, I didn’t go to far at all, YOU admitted love feelings AND went public on the boards here, not me!!! I just went along with it all and fell into your trap. Bad move. I did NOT go crazy, the whole marriage thing was just a bunch of IF’s, you didn’t read closely enough, shows how smart you REALLY are Ally, sheesh!! Sure, I’d love to get married to the right girl someday, whenever it happens. True love is the root of all successful marriages, I don’t want to marry ANYBODY without the TRUE LOVE part; if I did it would never work!! If I appeared desperate, it’s maybe cuz I’m the last one left as well as the oldest, and I just went to my brother’s wedding in London. But no, I’d rather be alone than make a huge mistake, and right now, I think staying with you would’ve been a HUGE mistake, as I just saw your true colours come out. It’s OK, now I know, good thing too!! Actually, you chose me, and I fell into your trap. Sure, I’d love to meet foreign women and this is a good place, as I love knowing people from all over the world, and the idea of finding a soulmate from a foreign land is a very enticing one indeed. It’s not desperation whatsoever, it’s possibility, big difference!!

No you are not like that Ally, you are a complete loser, with no sense of any sensitivity a nice guy might have. You’re a cruel person and yes, I do feel used up and thrown away, you never even gave me a proper chance for us to meet face to face, let alone even talk on the phone, sheesh.

All I say is Ally, have a nice life, and FUCK YOU CUNT!!! I’m done... (sorry Tevensso, it had to come out, plus Ally cursed first...I never did that here before)

Anarem said on June 27, 2003 06:19:

@Larry:

I’ve always liked my discussions with you, but chill out, dude! Maybe you’re having trouble finding a girl (and keeping them) because you’ve got some emotional problems you need to work on– not everything is the girl’s fault. I know you feel angry and upset and deceived, but please, that offensive post of yours to Ally should have been sent *privately*, if at all.

powerpoplarry said on June 27, 2003 07:05:

Ana, I would accept responsibility if something went wrong on my account, I definitely would. But really, Ally is completely at fault here, I did absolutely nothing wrong here. And BTW, she crossed the line first, in cursing out my friend PUBLICLY, and based on her post, I’m sorry, I’m a civilized person, but I just lost it...and based on what happened, my emotions were taken on a rollercoaster ride, and I don’t thionk Ally has any idea what she is doing...she needs help...I’m done with her, compeltely, let her say what she wishes, I am done, through, kaput....

zeeshan said on June 27, 2003 11:13:

“I’m done with her, compeltely, let her say what she wishes, I am done, through, kaput....”

Is that easy to be DONE WITH? I mean... how can people just GET OVER IT if they are in “LOVE”? This remains a mystery for me.

Anarem said on June 27, 2003 12:21:

@Larry: Of course Ally didn’t know what she was doing. Neither did you. Falling in love, declaring your love for someone with whom you’ve only talked online? What you guys did was to fall in love with each other’s *idea* of one another. I’ve heard too many stories where people spend all their time and energy on their cyberloves, even spending a good chunk of their personal fortunes travelling across entire continents... only to be disappointed in the end. Larry, if you’re racing against your biological clock to find an exotic foreign woman, get a mail-order bride. And please in the future, don’t call your bride a “c**t”, most women absolutely hate being called that– not a way to her heart! I suggest flowers and candy instead.

Ally, this is what happens when you declare “love” to someone online– you get guys like Larry. It’s good you’re reconnecting with the real world. Find yourself a nice Aussie boy (your country has produced good breeding stock like Hugh Jackman, Russell Crowe and Guy Pierce– maybe they’ve got a cousin or a brother or something) and maybe you’ll be happy. But people, work on yourselves first before forming a romantic bond with someone else.

Cheers!

beautyqueen said on June 27, 2003 12:22:

Just wanted to say I´m so pretty today!

Lovely Lily aka beauty-queen

zeeshan said on June 27, 2003 13:25:

YOu must be COWBOYUSA :p

powerpoplarry said on June 27, 2003 14:54:

Zee, simple, I have to move on, it’s no use wallowing anymore or flogging a dead horse here, aka the Ally diaster. Yes, we declared our love, she ended it, plain and simple, and I cant just stew in my tears, no way. Dust myself off and move on. I don’t know what it is you can’t understand. I know it’s over, period. You would just moan and complain and beg her to come back??? Not me, unless I knew it was worth fighting for and there was a chance for love to continue and blossom. Not with Ally, she killed it, and I can’t bring it back to life, not with her attititude!! >:S

Ana, clearly, she had no idea what she was doing, that is obvious. Me, yes I admit, I fell into her trap, didn’t know what I was getting myself into. The IDEA of mutual feelings is what made me happy, plus it’s not like I met Ally yesterday, we had been talking for 4 months, so it was possible, as well as my ex from Spain, same situation. And, I wanted it to be more than just our ideas, I wanted to talk to her on the phone, see a photo, neither was accomplished because of timing and her lack of a digital camera + scanner. I went about it in a reasonable fashion, but Ally set the trap up for me to fall in, period. I would NEVER call my girlfriend/wife that in the future, cuz calling her the c-word is about as low as you can go, but Ally just pushed me too far, she is gone from my life, unfortunately...of course flowers, candy would be the way to go, I AM a romantic at heart, but Ally never gave me the chance to express that side of me.

Lastly, Ana, was that comment to Ally like a swipe at me, declaring me a bad seed, a bad egg, or a bad person????? It read like it was... I agree that Ally should have worked out her own problems before setting up the bs one with me, causing all this ugliness...

Who are you Lily/Beauty Queen????? ;-P

Aschrum said on June 27, 2003 15:16:

i guess she also meant that you shud work on urself!

ally77 said on June 27, 2003 18:17:

Yes Larry I am having a good holiday, thanx for you concern.

I slagged off your mate Kenny… would this be the same friend who only logged onto TDR and became a member so he could have a go at me first…….

Larry, who the hell is ELAINE…. If you had bothered reading my emails you would have noticed my best friend is not called ELAINE……

Also considering you are over me and no longer interested in me in any way and don’t wish to talk to me again you are doing a pretty good job of forgetting about me……You seen so concerned on flaming me on a public board such as TDR…… pretty sad really….

Here is this 35 year old single unemployed man who is desperate for love, marriage whatever you want to call it but spends 4 hours a day on the internet flaming people… not exactly the way to go to find the woman of your dreams….. anyone from TDR who is emailing this guy BEWARE he is a complete creep!!

The truth is: YOU DID NOT LIKE THE FACT I TOLD YOU THAT YOU WHERE TAKING THINGS FAR TO FAST AND THAT I NEEDED YOU TO BACK OFF….. IT IS NOT NORMAL TO SEND THE KIND OF SOPPY EMAILS ALL ABOUT HOW MUCH YOU LOVE ME AND ONE DAY IT MAY BE US WHO GETS MARRIED TO SOMEONE WHO YOU HAVE BEEN TALKING TO FOR MONTHS AND WHO ADMITTED (ME) THEY HAD FEELINGS FOR YOU 1 WEEK EARLIER…. Half of TDR think this is weird.

Can I make a suggestion about your life Larry… please climb back into that little hole you crawled out of, concentrate on getting a job/career and maybe just maybe you will find your soul mate…

P.S Larry.... I am normal, just a perfect normal single female 25 years old, have my own place, my own car, and a job.... cannot get much more normal than that can you... perhaps you should take a little look at your own life before you have a go at people you don’t know the first thing about!!!

Shane said on June 27, 2003 19:16:

Oh my - this is turning ugly. How about everyone cool off for a while? Maybe send some of these messages via email rather than posting on public threads where everyone can read them?

I really think we need to stop this soon - it reminds me of a bad episode of Beverly Hills 90210!

derek said on June 27, 2003 19:50:

yea shanes right cool it you guys what did i say to both of you *private* ok

wendy said on June 27, 2003 19:54:

Ok,first of all,why can’t you fight things out in private??
second,Larry,you’ve dissapointed me a lot,mate,really,what kind of reaction was that?? Kenny has gone too far first,everyone haves read that......
Then,zee,you’re right,how can you forget everything so quickly when you’re in LOVE???
Nonono,this is all wrong!!!!!!!!
Think a second,Larry,and everyone else instead,if someone you like very much tells you “I love you” wouldn’t you answer him/her “I love you too” ??
Feelings are complicated,you make mistakes cuz of them,everyone does,not just Ally,also you,Larry,and me and zee,and santi and xuxa and aaso and carlos and everyone of the whole wide world.....This is life,life’s complicated,feelings are complicated,love’s complicated,people are complicated......
I hope you understand what i mean........
Larry,one more thing,Love haves to happen,so,let it happen,and don’t search too much,cuz then everything’ll go wrong!! ;)

ally77 said on June 27, 2003 20:28:

@ Wendy…

You are right as always…. I agree it is stupid to go on like this in a public forum especially one as nice as TDR.

I have to say this and do find it hard after what has been said. I owe Larry an apology. I am sorry I screwed with your heart and I am sure you will get over it, remember the saying “There are plenty more fish in the sea”.

Please send my apologises to Kenny for what I said. I was angry with what he posted about me. In the end he is your best friend and he was just looking out for you, which is what friends do.

I would also publicly like to apologise to anyone who has been upset or angry by this farce on TDR, as far as I am concerned it is over and I will speak no more of it.

(Would you believe it but the hotel I am staying at has 2 PC’s with internet access in the reception, getting strange looks from the staff… think I am hogging them!! – told you I could not stay away from TDR no matter how hard I try!!!)

wendy said on June 27, 2003 20:33:

Hey,Ally,it’s very nice what you’ve just done ;)
C’mon,Larry,we’re all waiting for yours ..........

I hope you enjoy your holiday,Ally,make fun for me too ;)

Stormkeeper said on June 28, 2003 01:34:

who thinks Ally should be banned?

TinyBubbles said on June 28, 2003 05:18:

:’( ...this used to be my beautiful/fun thread about marriage proposals.... :’(

TinyBubbles said on June 28, 2003 05:26:

Shame on you :((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((

powerpoplarry said on June 28, 2003 06:17:

Hey everyone...well, after this ugliness, and a day or two to think things over, I am chilled out, ready to move on...

Yes, Asch, I have been working on myself for a long time now, I guess we all could, nobody’s perfect in this world. I also came to a realization here, learning something from this mess. Basically, we make friends on these boards and the net overall. If it’s a potential mate, it’s best to talk as friends, explore each other’s connection + vibe, and decide to meet in person, and THEN if sparks fly, THEN you move to the next level!! No use declaring love, marriage, etc, BEFORE meeting, just stay friends with the possibility of more. THAT way, when you DO meet, if sparks don’t fly, you find each other ugly, or things don’t work, you’re not disappointed, and no one gets hurt. THAT’s what me + Ally should have done in the first place, and it’s what my approach will be from now on. Cool??? ;-D

My apologies to you Ally, for my ugly post, but bad feelings were bottled up with confusion and stuff, and it came out in the worst way. I am truly sorry, truce???

Yes, Kenny finally signed on, but he’s been one of my best friends, for the past 25 years, and he lives in my town, so we talk a lot, about everything, including what went on on this board. He was just concerned, as best friends always do. Sorry, your best friend is Eileen, oops, my bad!!!!! ;-P

Anyhoo, Ally, I am over this debacle, and would be willing to remain just friends, board correspondents, if you want... Yes, my situation is what it is, I admit, but it is just temporary, bad things happened, as they sometimes do to good people, and I’d LOVE a turnaround, which is one thing I am working on at the moment. And no, I don’t spend 4 hours a day flaming people, no way!! I am among the friendliest guys here, not the meanest; I was just hurt and you saw a bad side, a normal reaction, that’s all...I am NOT a creep...I guess we both went too far, and, it just escalated out of our control...we made mistakes, period...

Wendy, thanks for your concern, but the fight is over...sorry I disappointed you, really I am...read above about Kenny, and no, he didn’t go too far, not at all, he was just concerned...I guess I thought it was love, but I force myself to move on, even after I am hurt, it’s not easy though...yes I would answer “I love you too” of course!! Yes, we make mistakes, we all do, I did, I admit it...I totally understand what you mean, Wendy, here, give me a cyberhug...I feel better already ;-P...yep, I’m not looking for love, I’m letting it find me first, but I guess I lost patience, that’s all...

Allly?? Apology accepted. Now, let’s all drop this and continue where we all left off, OK??? ;-D Yes I know, more fish in the sea. I’ll tell Kenny you apologize as well...I also apologize to everyone here at TDR for this whole mess that was caused. I hope the chasm is now closed, and as of this word, I will speak no more of it either, done, zip...

Your hotel sounds GREAT Ally!!! Where are you taking your holiday anyway??

Storm?? Never!!
TinyBubbles?? It will be again, the storm has now passed over...

Anarem said on June 28, 2003 07:02:

@Larry:

When I said that you should work on your problems before forming a bond with someone– that included you too, man– especially you. Get off the computer, go to the gym, head on down to the unemployment office to find a job.... I think the reason why you latched onto Ally so quickly was because you wanted to fill the void in your life.

ally77 said on June 28, 2003 07:12:

@ Larry

Truce, yes I think we should put it behind us. I am having a holiday in Salou for a week then I am off to Barcelona for a few days. Weather is fantastic.

@ Stormkeeper

I should be banned.......... Ha Ha Ha Ha...... as if!!

@ Tinybubbles

Sorry, for ruining your thread... it will only get better now!!!

powerpoplarry said on June 28, 2003 07:27:

Ana, I only sign on at night. During the day, yes, I am trying to better my life...early evenings I sign on at the library as well. An idea just dawned on me as I was reading the paper. I think I might go back to school a THIRD time, to Five Towns College in Dix Hills, Long Island, and get my Masters in the music business somehow, or even teaching music to kids. I have an Associates (in webdesign) and a Bachelors (in Mass Communications), why not a Masters??? Either in Audio Engineering or teaching?? I would probably land a killer job that way, in something I love!!! I can apply for financial aid, and work while going to school, yet again!! There is an open house on Saturday, July 19th, so I think I will go...

Ally, it sounds like you’re enjoying your holiday, I’m sure it’s beautiful there...enjoy!! ;-D

Santi said on June 28, 2003 13:24:

I’m relatively close to Salou :D Well, actually near Valencia. Tomorrow I’ll pass by Salou at 8 am aprox :D

In my opinion the weather is killer :/

xuxa said on June 28, 2003 14:12:

@Larry and Ally: I am really glad to know that this “novel” finally has finished and that you continue being good friends:)
I really didn’t understand why did you have to expose yourself that way in public. It was disagreeable and sad to read some of your posts here :(((.
Let’s forget it! :D Apology accepted:)

Anarem said on June 28, 2003 15:49:

@Larry:

Going back to school is a wonderful thing to do. Good luck with that, dude. :-)

Aschrum said on June 28, 2003 16:08:

how can u stay in nyc unemployed?

is there nowadays any social system in us?

wendy said on June 28, 2003 17:09:

I’m glad everything’s solved :)

So,Tinybubbles,here’s your own nice topic again :)

Stormkeeper said on June 28, 2003 17:27:

why everyone´s blaming Larry??
Ally was the first one to say fuck you for Larry´s pal.

Storm

ally77 said on June 28, 2003 17:32:

@ Santi

The weather is nice today, a little cloudy around 26 but tomorrow it is suppose to be hotter and more sun. You are passing Salou tomorrow... okay if you see this crazy girl running on the beach it will be me!! I always get up early to go to the beach avoid all the brits (no offence to my fellow homelanders)

Last night I spent the night on the beach and watched the sun set listing to Marazin it was wonderful, I think I can honestly say in all my 25 years on earth I have never watched the sun set (that must be sad!).....

I must admit I prefer snow and rain!!

Stormkeeper said on June 28, 2003 17:37:

“I must admit I prefer snow and rain!!”

really?! Every time me or Twilight-Ghost admits we like snow and cool weather people says we´re weird... ;)

Storm

powerpoplarry said on June 28, 2003 18:06:

Hey Storm, thanks for the support friend, but I am done pointing fingers...nor do I want to reopen this raw wound, it’s over...the book is finished...

TinyBubbles said on June 28, 2003 18:09:

:) :D

Stormkeeper said on June 28, 2003 20:08:

good.

lost-little-girl said on June 28, 2003 20:14:

I was proposed to once, got engaged did the whole party thing, got to the stage of planning a date for the wedding even honeymoon.

Then the alarm clock went off!!!!!!!!!

Aschrum said on June 28, 2003 20:18:

ya good :)

lost-little-girl said on June 28, 2003 20:21:

Well a girl can dream, I was marrying Per but Asa beat me to it!!

Speaking of dreaming - did anyone dream of marrying Per when they where a teen or was it just me??

derek said on July 5, 2003 18:34:

iv been married twice sure it hurts but fighting is not the answer and i have no regrets .married to two beautifull ladies and iv got 3 great children so im happy.

larry take care mate you will find some one and im glad the fighting is over between you and ally.

i still think that this topic is great

Aschrum said on July 6, 2003 10:48:

so lets thank the a lil bit crazy tb :D

TinyBubbles said on July 6, 2003 11:06:

whatever

derek said on July 6, 2003 15:04:

whatever what????

P-p-p-pelle said on July 7, 2003 12:36:

I’m waiting for Wendy to propose

Aschrum said on July 8, 2003 08:41:

derek, “whatever” means... absolutly nothing, when tb uses it :)

zeeshan said on July 9, 2003 06:08:

Whatever!!!

wendy said on July 9, 2003 08:29:

Me?? Propose??? Who?where?when??how?? what are you talking about?? :s

Lotty said on July 13, 2003 22:22:

Ever been proposed to? Yes, once.
Did you accept? Yes!
How did he/she propose? He simply asked me if I would marry him.
We will marry next May. I hope! ;-)
I am sooooooooo in love!!!

TinyBubbles said on July 14, 2003 19:07:

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

zeeshan said on July 14, 2003 20:45:

whats with the :Ds ???

ChrisWilliams said on July 14, 2003 23:37:

:-D

TinyBubbles said on July 15, 2003 01:56:

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

zeeshan said on July 15, 2003 05:23:

HUH!?? CHRISS, Xuxa... who is gona be next coming up with a :D ??

ally77 said on September 9, 2003 20:53:

God was I stupid or was I stupid... Jesus I make so many mistakes in my life and all it takes is for me to tell the truth....

Sorry to anyone when this thread was in progress all the crap that was said on here...