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biggestfan said on October 25, 2005 15:02:

I’m fallen in love BUT: he doesn’t know it! Because he was my english teacher last week when I was in London for my holidays.
I could cry!
Just wanted to say it

Debora said on :

If he never knew it you will never have a chance...

biggestfan said on :

but I can’t get a chance to say it!
I’m trying to get his e-mail adress but that is not easy

coyboyusa said on :

lol i wish i could have actually pofessed my crush to the 2 high school teachers i wanted so badly :)

biggestfan said on :

my biggest problems are tha he is in london and i am here in germany and he is 29 and i am 15
and i think he is forgetting me but the schol does not give me his e-mail adress
and i was never so in love i will get crazy

Debora said on :

Ops... you are 15 and he’s 29...mmm... it would be a problem to him he could end behind bars, you know. I don’t want you lose your hope but I’m almost 29 and to say the truth a 15 years old boy is not what I’m looking for, there’s many years diference between you and him and although it is said that there’s no age for love... i don’t know. Can I give you and advice? Don’t do thing without thinking about it, you could get hurt.

LittleSpooky said on :

When it comes to love, there’s no age barrier, no.

However, take it from someone who’s loved someone with a significant age difference: Get someone closer to your own age... that way if you want a family in the future, there’s actually a chance of that. It’s not just women who have the difficult time, men do to (when they get older)

Majdy said on :

if u can get his email address then maybe you can start as friend first because of the age problems, and in few years who knows what might happen.
Different countries is not a problem. Look at me and my BF. I was living in Indonesia (now I am moving with him) and he was in the US, we lived apart to each other for four years! but now we finally reunite again.
Oh, well. I know we have different stories with you, but I am saying this so you can see that there’s always hope in everything.
And consider your age, I think there are still so many great things will happen. maybe not with this one, just dont lose hope and enjoy your life.

biggestfan said on :

ok

and now I have got the email adress!!
I hope that we could first be friends!

Oldag75 said on :

If the 29-year-old guy has any sense at all, he will immediately contact the 15-year-old girl’s parents and ask that she be kept away from him – along with suggesting that they more carefully monitor their CHILD’s activities. This guy faces a potentially life-ruining situation, because if the young girl gets mad and accuses him of something unsavory, then – despite whatever the law says – the burden of proof of innocence rests upon the accused guy.

steven said on :

Oh-my-f*cking-god...

For once... OLDAG has actually spouted some wise advice, which I agree 100% with.

Any 15 year old who professes an “interest” in a grown-up AND who attempts to pursue a relationship with is... frankly... a selfish bitch.

It’s illegal and has the MASSIVE potential of ending someone’s career forever.

Get over it, move on (and take a cold shower).

DaminehGessle said on :

The teacher is almost twice your age. It’s quite common for people your age to fall in love with their teachers and there’s nothing wrong with it. But I bet a 29-year old wouldn’t have feelings for a 15-year old, a few exceptions maybe. So before you get hurt, think twice.

biggestfan said on :

to oldag 75 and steven: F***!! you
Maybe you’ve been like child at the age of 15!!
But there are girls who think not of bubble gums, nice flowers or their dolls.
WELCOME TO THE 21 th CENTURY!!!!!!
maybe you can think only 1 minute of the fact that there are other activities. and not only things that happen in bed!!
And how can one of you use the word “bitch”? FIRST THINK AND THEN WRITE YOUR SENSLESS SENTENCE!!!!!

that is my opinion!

steven said on :

It’s all very well you becoming emotional and unreasonable, but seriously... seriously... consider what you are proposing here for one moment of your selfish life...

You, as a Minor... are considering pursuing a relationship with an adult...

The moment his peers or your parents discover this, 3 things will happen:

1. He will be fired from his job.
2. He will be arrested and possibly prosecuted.
3. He’ll never work as a teacher again.

I’m not sure what the law says about this where you are, but in the UK it is a serious crime and it is the adult that would be punished.

Grow up and go find a child your own age.

PersPopPrincess said on :

Biggestfan, if you care *anything* for this man, then grow up a little and walk away.

As a 29 year old guy he will have a hard time physically not being attracted to you, he’s a guy, it’s genetic, and he can’t help it.

*you* however need to grow up fast! The fact you’re actually considering potentially destroying the life and career of this poor teacher shows just what kind of person you are. It’s not love you have, but a chemical and hormonal overdose of endorphins which have combined with your selfish nature allowing you to “justify” your cruel behaviour.

Biggestfan, if you really do care anything at all beyond your selfish bestial instincts, you’ll get over yourself and socialise with the other children your age.

-
The one true fan.

kachina008 said on :

Oh GOD! let up already. She’s a kid with a crush, and unless you are all abnormal, you’ve had those as well when you were 15. Stop talking like you can change this, and let it be. sheesh. OF COURSE she’s gonna get hurt...it’s called growing up.

And calling someone a “selfish bitch” is totally and absolutely uncalled for. You should apologize!

LittleSpooky said on :

Yes, it’s a crush.

But now that I’ve had some time, I’d have to agree with the fact that if he does get involved with her, he’s looking at some serious jail time for statutory rape. At least, here in the US. If the parents decide to persue it.

kachina008 said on :

So if you have something to say, HE should hear it, not her! he is after all the adult.

I wonder if you remember when you were 15, and if someone older called you a child, how hurtful it felt. And d’you think that trying to tell her to be all responsible for this is gonna stop her? I mean make up your mind! either she’s a child or she’s old enough to accept responsibility for a crush.

So, Biggestfan, my advice to you is, know your limits, have your fun, don’t be afraid to get hurt. do what you feel but hurt no one.

biggestfan said on :

to kachina008: thank you so much. I think you know what I’m feeling and I wish thet there are more people like you.
I mean ... I know that he and I cannot now have a kind of relation chip because of my age.
Because of that I hope that we now just can be friends. I’m not intrested in damaging his image. And I don’t want him to lose his job or something like that.
only 3 years and I’m 18 and let’s see what happens until that.

to steven: I think it is enough! And don’t call me child, or bitch anymore. Otherwise YOU can get problems with my parents!!

LittleSpooky said on :

Well that was real adult.

“I’m telling my parents on you!!!”

What? You’re not big enough to fight your own battles?

I remember in Kindergarten that there were some kids that were pickin on this other kid. One of the bullies got punched right in the gut, and started to cry because he got hit. Granted, the kid got into a little bit of trouble for poppin the other one, but the parent that was helping to supervise said: “Well, you shouldn’t have been picking on him, now should you?”

Don’t threaten me with your parents. I don’t give a shit about them.

biggestfan said on :

oh my god!
how stupid are you??
didn’t you get the context?
he says the hole time that my parents should do something against that. So he (the teacher) would be in trouble because of my parents! That’s why I said that he (steven) can get problems with my parents!
Dou you understand it now??

juni said on :

hi
@ biggestfan teenage girls often have a crush on her teacher you will laugh when you read this topic after a few years maybe a year later again at your age i had a crush almost everyday

steven said on :

@ biggestfan

I would love for you to “tell your parents” about me.

I REALLY would.

Firstly, I would tell them what an absolute shit job they did in bringing you up and enforcing what is morally right and more importantly what is morally wrong.

Then I would give them the details of a really good child counsellor, because you are in absolute dire need of professional help.

Finally, I would PERSONALLY give you ten British pounds to go and spend in the nearest Toys R Us store, so that you could buy a new dolly and get back to what you know best...

...being a child.

biggestfan said on :

now it is getting too stupid!!
i hope you are happy now.
i think it was the worsest idea i ever had to write something about my life on this page.
i ’ ve got enough!
i think the word tolerance is a foreign word for you and i think that you should have a little bit more respect also when i’m “only” 15!

you’ll never see me here again! i can have senseless arguments with my father everytime at home.

steven said on :

Quote: “i’m “only” 15!”

...that my dear is the point we have all been trying to make all along.

You’re just not listening.

tcooh said on :

I must say I’m surprised and disappointed in the way some people here present their views on this topic. There are better and more polite words to choose when one wish to express one thoughs and opinions, and to make their point understandable. Sadly some here think that bad language and picking on someone else is that way. It’s not! It’s not an easy situation, but one who needs a lot of thinking I guess, and it might be painful in realizing the probabilities of it. But I think that more people have showed that they are in need to grow a little bit in their behavior.

Majdy said on :

guys, I think you’re too hard on her. I mean, she’s already having hard time now...

LittleSpooky said on :

What about the guy involved in all of this mess? Granted, he may not give 2 shits about her, but at the same time, not many people seem to care that if something goes wrong... HE’S the one that gets screwed and she’s the “victim”.

I’ve seen it too many times to just stand idly by and let someone destroy someone else’s life because of hormones.

I’d rather be thought of as a bitch for discouraging this than to see lives ruined.

silverROSES said on :

wow this is Cool I think I can relate!!!!

YOu know what biggestfan! all I can is that your not alone, maybe your too young to fall inlove and getting hurt is just part of growing up... Do the things you wanna do to express how you feel but do not harm him and put him into unlikely situation.

But I don’t think that’s love, maybe you just saw something to him that all your life at that stage you have been looking for....

maiden said on :

I totally agree with you majdy.

Our creator really love cruel people He made so many of them.

Hey guys, biggestfan is just sharing with us her feelings, she needs an advice but what did she get?
Insults! Don’t be too hard on her.

Marie-fan said on :

Oh my god. I read this topic today.
I Can´t undersatnd why some people in this forum try to hurt other people. It´s not okay to say bitch or something like that.
Biggestfan only told about that she´s crush, not more.

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